Third Tuesday • Advent 2022

December 13th, 2022

MARY, MOTHER OF GOD CHAPEL

Sacred Spaces

Hello and welcome! I just finished reading a devotional entitled, “Mary, Mother of God Chapel” written by Jan Richardson and she describes a chapel that provides a quiet space for her soul. It made me start thinking about quiet spaces where I find quiet and peace for my soul.

“Now my eyes will be open and my ears attentive to the prayers offered in this place.”

2 Chronicles 7:15

When I was growing up, I loved walking in the sanctuary of our church, we would often have meals at church following a Sunday service and I would sneak away upstairs to enjoy the quiet. It was an old church with wooden pews, polished and just right for sliding on. But I loved the feel of the wooden seats, the creaking of the wooden floors when walking on them, and looking upon the picture of Jesus on the wall. Such beautiful memories. Below are two photos of the church I grew up attending.

Centennial Community Church
Yeddo, IN
Centennial Community Church
Yeddo, IN

Most recently, I have found two favorite activities that feed my soul and help me feel closer to God. The first activity is driving on country roads, or at least roads off the beaten path. I drive slow and look for things that give me pause, I often will park the car on the side of the road so I can get out and take a closer look and usually snap some photos. My second favorite thing to do is to go to a park or nature preserve and sit listening to the sounds. Watching nature move in harmony with the wind, the birds singing and trees swaying. These are my chapels.

How about you, where is your chapel? Do you have special places or things that you retreat to for quiet soul rest? If you have them, visit them often. If you don’t have a special thing or place, maybe you are still searching and my prayer for you is that the Holy Spirit will provide guidance. Seek places or things that bring you JOY! It is very important that we take time to care for ourselves, so that we are able to care for others.

Here’s a few of my favorite photos from my country drives…I hope you enjoy them.

“Mary calls us into this holy space of inner fertile darkness. We can ask her to stay with us in the cell of our hearts as we await what wants to emerge.”

Christine Valters Paintner

I am so very blessed for you support , companionship and encouragement during this advent journey.

May you experience much JOY today!

~Charlotte, Seeker of unexpected Comfort, Happiness, Joy and Patience.

References:

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2Chr.7.15&version=NIV

Third Monday • Advent 2022

December 12th, 2022

STRIPPING

{Packing, Moving, Packing}

When I read the title of today’s devotional I was wondering how the word, “stripping” would fit into my life and how I might be able to share my thoughts with you. Just hearing the word, “stripping “can open one’s thoughts! The story written by Jan Richardson was her story and her experience and it included “stripping” wallpaper and she being a gifted writer elegantly shared a story intertwining the removal of wallpaper and repainting a wall with beautiful comparisons to her own life story. I highly recommend her book which I am currently reading called, “Night Visions-searching the shadows of advent and christmas.”

As I’m sure you noticed I added my own “title” for today under, “Stripping” called {Packing, Moving, Packing}. The scripture I chose for today comes from Genesis 32 focusing on Jacob. The biblical account of Jacob can be found in Genesis 25 thru Genesis 50.

There are times in our lives where God will take things away, in some cases takes everything away that we find comfort in to help us regain our first love. Our first love is God, himself. God who created us and breathed life into us. Our beginning is God. As we grow and live things seep into our lives that distracts us from our first love, we may even forget our first love. In the case of Jacob, he ran away to a new land, took multiple wives and became very wealthy looking for happiness.

Does any of this resonate with you. It definitely did with me, I try to live by saying I have no regrets, I have made plenty of mistakes and made some bad choices but they also taught me very valuable lessons. Sometimes we must hit rock bottom, then dig a bit deeper before we decide to look up and ask for help. In some cases, we find ourselves running away from God. Okay, so we run, but why do we run? In my cases, I think it started out as just looking away from God to see what else was in the world, I became distracted and that led to walking away and before I knew it I was running in a new direction and God was no longer my anchor. I never completely left God but my relationship suffered because distance grew.

It’s been more than a decade since I experienced personal devastation and I had to learn to trust God, to return to my first love. It did not happen quickly, there was a lot of pain and anger involved. My wounds ran deep, I needed to uncover why they hurt so badly. It was more than ripping a bandage off, my wounds had healed, reopened and healed again, the result was scars and calloused scar tissue. Slowly and steadily I began to pay more attention to my needs and focused on my wholeness. God generously placed some very caring individuals in my life and like healing ointment on sore damaged skin, these beautiful people helped the healing of my soul.

I chose the “{Packing, Moving, Packing}, because I feel like I’ve done a lot of it, back in 2003 I moved from an apartment to a house I had built; 2005 sold the house, pack the house, moved to an apartment/unpacked; 2008 bought a condo, packed/unpacked; 2009 moved out of condo to an apartment packed/unpacked; 2022 moved to a new apartment packed/unpacked. These moves have taught me that I can live without most of the things I possess, my needs are very basic and I am learning to love me, all of me because I was created by God and He loves me. God has never left me alone, even though many times I felt utterly alone and scared.

In the end, my life (your life) will always be about me (you) and God and will always be. God can bless me (you) and remake me (you) into the person he wants me (you) to be, he first has to take away the things that have gotten in the way of the relationship.

Genesis 32:24-28, (Jacob wrestled a man and in the end, his name was changed to Israel).

“So Jacob was left alone, and a man wrestled with him till daybreak. When the man saw that he could not overpower him, he touched the socket of Jacob’s hip so that his hip was wrenched as he wrestled with the man. Then the man said, “Let me go, for it is daybreak.”But Jacob replied, “I will not let you go unless you bless me.” The man asked him, “What is your name?”“Jacob,” he answered. Then the man said, “Your name will no longer be Jacob, but Israel, because you have struggled with God and with humans and have overcome.”

“Imagine yourself as a living house. God comes in to rebuild that house. At first, perhaps, you can understand what He is doing. He is getting the drains right and stopping the leaks in the roof and so on; you knew that those jobs needed doing and so you are not surprised. But presently He starts knocking the house about in a way that hurts abominably and does not seem to make any sense. What on earth is He up to? The explanation is that He is building quite a different house from the one you thought of – throwing out a new wing here, putting on an extra floor there, running up towers, making courtyards. You thought you were being made into a decent little cottage: but He is building a palace. He intends to come and live in it Himself.”

—C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity

God of making

and unmaking,

of tearing down

and re-creating,

you are my home

and habitation,

my refuge

and place of dwelling.


In your hallows

I am re-formed,

given welcome

and benediction,

beckoned to rest

and rise again,

made ready

and sent forth.

- Jan Richardson

Friends, I have JOY in my life because of God. God has blessed me with the wonderful gift of you in my life. May you have JOY in your life today and always. I pray that your advent journey is all you need and want it to be. I am blessed to have you traveling with me. May God bless you and keep you ~ 🛐

~Charlotte, Seeker of unexpected Comfort, Happiness, Joy and Patience.

References:

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jacob

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Gen.32.24,Gen.32.25,Gen.32.26,Gen.32.27,Gen.32.28&version=NIV

Third Sunday • Advent 2022

December 11th, 2022

Preparing A Space

The third week of Advent is JOY! Celebrating and preparing for the JOY of the birth of Jesus. How does one prepare for JOY? Joy for me is the unexpected and one of the most genuine expressions of one’s truest emotions. I think a lot of people can express happiness, but joy comes from deep within a person and is undeniably pureness that is extreme happiness.

This time of year can be very stressful for many and for multiple reasons; extending grace to others can only help in these situations. I like enjoying Christmas movies, funny ones and serious one, they all seem to have a theme of disaster followed by a very happy ending. I will tell you the truth, my heart swells as I picture myself in the starring role, living that moment of joy! Life is a bit more complicated than a “feel-good” movie but that doesn’t mean can’t have our moments of joy and happiness. It’s a funny thing about stress, we think we can’t control but can’t we (?). Undoubtedly, things are bound to happen to us that can cause stress but it’s effects can be more manageable when we prepare ourselves, when we acknowledge our limitations and control our emotions verses letting them control us. Please don’t misunderstand what I’m say as easy, it is indeed NOT EASY, but with God with us on our journey through this life we can experience JOY.

Below, I have listed some questions we might want to ask ourselves concerning our own personal advent journey. In the spirit of my authenticity in writing and sharing I will attempt to answer the questions as well. Remember, no wrong answers as this journey is between you and God.

Advent Questions To Ask Yourself
  • What am I preparing for?
    • I want my heart to be prepared to meet Jesus, the Bible tells me in Matthew 25:35-36, 35 “For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36 I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’” When we care for others we are caring for Jesus! I want to be that person, God help me to do better.
  • What is the way that is being prepared within the wilderness of my life?
    • My current wilderness situation in life is teaching me to receive gifts as graciously as I like to give them. I am pretty headstrong and like to be independent. I prefer to be the one offering to help and support. I am not so good at receiving. I believe this is an important lesson God really needs me to accept. As of late I have struggled and had to ask for assistance financially and it hurt me deeply, my pride was hurt because I’ve spent the last decade making big changes and felt very accomplished for the changes. Asking for help made me feel like the ground under my feet was falling away. I so appreciate the beautiful people God has blessed me with on my journey.
  • What does it mean for my own life to become a path, a way of welcoming for the Holy One?
    • I love the idea of my life becoming a path. I can look behind and see where I was and look to the horizon to see the possibilities to come, not to mention look around and see where I am and the steps it took me to get there. I heard an analogy once about life compared to tree branches or maybe roots, some branches lead to other branches stretching out into new directions and others are more like a cul-de-sac, leading to nowhere. I did not want to be a cul-de-sac.
  • How do I give myself time to notice the ways that the path unfolds before me and within me?
    • I love writing on this blog space, it provides me with an audience to share my thoughts and ideas with. I love to get feedback from my audience and the open dialogue and friendships I have using this platform. I love to spend time with family, family is central to who I am and I especially enjoy reminiscing about loved ones that are no longer with us. Talking about then keeps them a live in our hearts and minds. I am not sure of my earthly destination of my path, all I know for sure is I am never alone. My path for eternity is heaven bound, by God grace and the sacrifice of Jesus.
  • What are the acts of preparation that bring delight to my daily life?
    • PURPOSE! I love going to work, my job is stimulating and I like the people I work with as they are a source of comfort and strengthen. Getting nine hours of sleep a day prepares me and waking refreshed is wonderful. Sipping my morning coffee and listening to audiobooks as I drive, anywhere! My daily intentional prayers, my silent prayers and my spur of the moment prayers, plus study time. I love to learn new things, I am intrigued by theology and history.
  • Whom do I ask or allow to help me prepare?
    • I have individuals in my life that energize me in ways they have no idea of their effects upon me. It’s receiving a text saying “hello, how are you?” Or saying, “Good night and sending prayers.” It’s in a phone call or Skype at work just wanting to say hi, or send a waving hand. It’s a co-worker acknowledging something I’ve accomplished, or a friend that just walks up and gives me a hug for no other reason than they are happy to see me. I have a few individuals in my life that I can share absolutely everything with, with no threat of condemnation from them. I am so blessed to have such a diversity of people in my life and they all add such depth of faith and friendship to me. I can’t mention them all by name in fear I might forget someone, but know this if you’re in my life you matter to me. This includes you, my WordPress friends! Thank you all for allowing me to share my journey with you.

Friends, may you experience JOY in its purest form this coming week as our journey through advent continues. Much love 💟 ~Charlotte

~Charlotte, Seeker of unexpected Comfort, Happiness, Joy and Patience.

References:

https://www.biblegateway.com/

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Isa.40.3&version=NIV

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matt.11.10&version=NIV

Second Saturday • Advent 2022

December 10th, 2022

For David, Who Knows The Value Of Bread

1 Samuel 21:1-9

Now David came to Nob, to Ahimelech the priest. And Ahimelech was afraid when he met David, and said to him, “Why are you alone, and no one is with you?”

So David said to Ahimelech the priest, “The king has ordered me on some business, and said to me, ‘Do not let anyone know anything about the business on which I send you, or what I have commanded you.’ And I have directed my young men to such and such a place.

Now therefore, what have you on hand? Give me five loaves of bread in my hand, or whatever can be found.”

And the priest answered David and said, “There is no common bread on hand; but there is holy bread, if the young men have at least kept themselves from women.”

Then David answered the priest, and said to him, “Truly, women have been kept from us about three days since I came out. And the vessels of the young men are holy, and the bread is in effect common, even though it was consecrated in the vessel this day.”

So the priest gave him holy bread; for there was no bread there but the showbread which had been taken from before the Lord, in order to put hot bread in its place on the day when it was taken away.

Now one of Saul’s servants was there that day, detained before the Lord; he was Doeg the Edomite, Saul’s chief shepherd.

David asked Ahimelek, “Don’t you have a spear or a sword here? I haven’t brought my sword or any other weapon, because the king’s mission was urgent.”

The priest replied, “The sword of Goliath the Philistine, whom you killed in the Valley of Elah, is here; it is wrapped in a cloth behind the ephod. If you want it, take it; there is no sword here but that one.” David said, “There is none like it; give it to me.”

This passages is about David fleeing because King Saul wanted him dead. David is on the run and traveling all alone, when the priest inquires about this…David lies. He tells the priest that he is on a secret mission and will be meeting up with guards soon. David being in need of bread and weapons (sword/spear), he asks the priest for them.

Jesus speaks of David and the eating of showbread in Matthew 12:4, “He entered the house of God, and he and his companions ate the consecrated bread—which was not lawful for them to do, but only for the priests.”

Matthew 12:1-8

At that time Jesus went through the grainfields on the Sabbath. His disciples were hungry and began to pick some heads of grain and eat them.

When the Pharisees saw this, they said to him, “Look! Your disciples are doing what is unlawful on the Sabbath.”

He answered, “Haven’t you read what David did when he and his companions were hungry?

He entered the house of God, and he and his companions ate the consecrated bread—which was not lawful for them to do, but only for the priests.

Or haven’t you read in the Law that the priests on Sabbath duty in the temple desecrate the Sabbath and yet are innocent?

I tell you that something greater than the temple is here.

If you had known what these words mean, ‘I desire mercy, not sacrifice,’ you would not have condemned the innocent.

For the Son of Man is Lord of the Sabbath.”

As we look at these two stories, David and the bread and the disciples picking grain… what do you think Jesus is trying to teach us, what is the greater truth we need to acknowledge…In Matthew 12:7, Jesus says that the priest who are “working” on the sabbath are in a matter of speaking, breaking the law but are not judged accordingly, as they were innocent. And in 1 Samuel 21:6, the priest gives the showbread to David to eat which was not lawful, yet David need nourishment for his travels. Jesus shared with His disciples and the Pharisees that He desires mercy, not sacrifice in Matthew 12:6-8, “I tell you that something greater than the temple is here. If you had known what these words mean, ‘I desire mercy, not sacrifice,’ you would not have condemned the innocent. For the Son of Man is Lord of the Sabbath.” Also found in Hosea 6:6 “For I desire mercy, not sacrifice, and acknowledgment of God rather than burnt offerings.

I think the point that Jesus was presenting and wanting them and us to pay attention to concerning the Law is that in cases of necessity (such as in the case of David), acts of mercy are preferred to ritual services. In the case of the disciples picking and eating grains in the grain field, that was not intentional work, rather innocent actions.

Other similar verses:

Mark 2:26
“In the days of Abiathar the high priest, he entered the house of God and ate the consecrated bread, which is lawful only for priests to eat. And he also gave some to his companions.”

Exodus 25:30
“And you shall set the showbread on the table before Me always.”

Luke 6:1-5
Jesus Is Lord of the Sabbath
“Now it happened [a]on the second Sabbath after the first that He went through the grainfields. And His disciples plucked the heads of grain and ate them, rubbing them in their hands. And some of the Pharisees said to them, “Why are you doing what is not lawful to do on the Sabbath?”
But Jesus answering them said, “Have you not even read this, what David did when he was hungry, he and those who were with him: how he went into the house of God, took and ate the showbread, and also gave some to those with him, which is not lawful for any but the priests to eat?” And He said to them, The Son of Man is also Lord of the Sabbath.”

The Bread of the Tabernacle

Leviticus 24:5-9 
“And you shall take fine flour and bake twelve cakes with it. Two-tenths of an ephahshall be in each cake. You shall set them in two rows, six in a row, on the pure gold table before the Lord. And you shall put pure frankincense on each row, that it may be on the bread for a memorial, an offering made by fire to the Lord. Every Sabbath he shall set it in order before the Lord continually, being taken from the children of Israel by an everlasting covenant. And it shall be for Aaron and his sons, and they shall eat it in a holy place; for it is most holy to him from the offerings of the Lord made by fire, by a perpetual statute.”

Friends, I hope you are able to glean from this post, I will be honest it was difficult to try and articulate. I simply used the title from a book I’m reading and I literally just Googled, “David and Showbread.” The internet had a lot of links to search, I went down a lot of rabbit holes, chasing differing theological points. I pray the Holy Spirit guides you to the knowledge you need and not the words I’ve typed. The truth is I found these passages very stimulating and wanting to learn more, I’m not convinced I was able to convey my thoughts in practical ways for you, my audience. I’m leaving it in God’s hands.

I guess in closing, trust God, seek Him every day and give thanks in words and obedience.

Thank you for your support! You are a blessing to me! May your day be all that you need it to be. Until tomorrow … 💟

~Charlotte, Seeker of unexpected Comfort, Happiness, Joy and Patience.

References:

https://www.biblegateway.com/

Second Friday • Advent 2022

December 9th, 2022

ALL THE WAYS I AM WORDS

Wikipedia makes the statement that the term I Am relating to God appears over 300 times in the Bible, first in the book of Genesis (15:1) and last in Revelation (22:16). This has led to the Biblical God sometimes being referred to as “the great ‘I am’”. I have not listed 300, but several from the Old and New Testament. Jesus used the “I Am” phrase seven distinct times when referring to himself. God uses “I Am who I Am” in Exodus speaking to Moses.

This post may seem repetitive and long but I think the message from God is very clear and concise, He is “ I AM!” God is not to be confused with anything or anyone else, period. A very good friend of mine shared a few verses with me years ago and after I read them, it completely summed up who Jesus is, I will never forget the simplicity of understanding once I read and understood the verses.

“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning. Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made. In him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.”

—John 1:1-5—

The Old Testament recorded over 300 prophecies telling of Jesus coming, His life and journey to the cross, and the power of His Resurrection; this was copied from an article at crosswalk.com. *Link provided below.

This advent season is a celebration of prophecies fulfilled than can not only be traced throughout the Bible but also through historical records. God is REAL, Jesus is REAL and SALVATION is a gift for everyone to receive. God is speaking to all of us, He is telling us the answer to every question we have or will ever have. I AM, is the answer.

I watched a new Christmas movie tonight, it was new to me… “The Little Drummer Boy Book II from 1976, I can’t believe I had never seen it. I’m many ways, we are all just like the little drummer boy, asking ourselves, “what possible gifts do we have fit for a King?” Just as the little drummer boy offered his gift of playing the drum, we too can give to Jesus…we each have the perfect gift, surrender of hearts to Jesus, placing our trust in Him and choosing to worship and obey Him.

Imagine the joy that filled the hearts of those gathered in the stable, under the brightness of the star in the east that guided them to this place where Jesus was born and found laying in a manger. We can experience that joy as well, I hope you will continue journeying with me through advent as we seek the new born baby in Bethlehem.

Original Art By: Me
Traveling to Bethlehem following The Star in the East

“I AM” Verses in the Bible

  • “After this, the word of the Lord came to Abram in a vision:“Do not be afraid, Abram. I am your shield, your very great reward.” —Genesis 15:1
  • God said to Moses, “I am who I am. This is what you are to say to the Israelites: ‘I am has sent me to you.’” —Exodus 3:14
  • Then Jesus declared, “I am the bread of life. Whoever comes to me will never go hungry, and whoever believes in me will never be thirsty.” —John 6:35
  • Very truly I tell you, the one who believes has eternal life. I am the bread of life. Your ancestors ate the manna in the wilderness, yet they died. But here is the bread that comes down from heaven, which anyone may eat and not die.” —John 6:47-50
  • When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” —John 8:12
  • “Very truly I tell you,” Jesus answered, “before Abraham was born, I am!” —John 8:58
  • While I am in the world, I am the light of the world.” —John 9:5
  • I am the gate; whoever enters through me will be saved. They will come in and go out, and find pasture.” —John 10:9
  • I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep. The hired hand is not the shepherd and does not own the sheep. So when he sees the wolf coming, he abandons the sheep and runs away. Then the wolf attacks the flock and scatters it. The man runs away because he is a hired hand and cares nothing for the sheep. “I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me.” —John 10:11-14
  • Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die.” —John 11:25
  • Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” —John 14:6
  • “He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful. “I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. You are already clean because of the word I have spoken to you. Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me. “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.” John 15:1-5
  • I am the Alpha and the Omega,” says the Lord God, “who is, and who was, and who is to come, the Almighty.” —Revelation 1:8
  • He said to me: “It is done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End. To the thirsty I will give water without cost from the spring of the water of life.” —Revelation 21:6

Friends, thank you for your support and companionship as we celebrate advent 2022. May your day be filled with unexpected joy. I challenge you today to listen for, “I am” statements, may they remind you of God, the Creator of everything, the Architect of all things. May the peace of God be with you today and always —Much Love 💜✝️💟

~Charlotte, Seeker of unexpected Comfort, Happiness, Joy and Patience.

References:

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_am_(biblical_term)

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John.1.1,John.1.2,John.1.3,John.1.4,John.1.5&version=NIV

https://www.crosswalk.com/special-coverage/christmas-and-advent/10-bible-verses-that-prophesy-christ-s-birth.html

https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Bible-Verses-About-I-Am/

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Gen.15.1&version=NIV

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Exod.3.14&version=NIV

https://bethlehemhandicrafts.com/blogs/news/113-the-7-i-am-statements-of-jesus-christ

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John.6.35&version=NIV

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John.6.47,John.6.48,John.6.49,John.6.50&version=NIV

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John.8.12&version=NIV

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John.8.58&version=NIV

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John.9.5&version=NIV

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John.10.9&version=NIV

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John.10.11,John.10.12,John.10.13,John.10.14&version=NIV

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John.11.25&version=NIV

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John.14.6&version=NIV

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John.15.2,John.15.1,John.15.3,John.15.4,John.15.5&version=NIV

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Rev.1.8&version=NIV

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Rev.21.6&version=NIV