How easily we are swayed by the people and circumstances that surround us. Good, bad or indifferent, they make their marks upon us and in most cases find their way inside us where it hides from the outside world. Our ideation, values and self-confidence begins with our families, then from our friends, teachers and public figures. We all must be able to reconcile ourselves when we see our reflection in the mirror as well as our hearts. I believe that God has blessed each of us with very specific gifts and talents; however, we must be mindful to the paths we choose to take. We are all human, and with our humanness we are foul-able, our choices help us to grow and discern. I know all too well that fear can choke us and keep us from pursuing our hearts desire. I know for me fear wins all too often, I’m scared of rejection but this fear also keeps me from truth. Is it possible for me to experience love, or even participate in fleshly desires? I’m too scared to act because of rejection. I do not want to be seen as a fool and/or as someone reaching beyond their limitations.  The sad part is by taking no action I have already lost. Fear is a dictator and I want to move past this but I am too scared to try.

Let another man praise thee, and not thine own mouth; a stranger, and not thine own lips. – Prov. 27:2

No Wants, No Desires – Know Wants, Know Desires:

“Say what you mean, mean what you say.”

Can you imagine what life would be like, if everyone lived by that simple statement? No more hurtful conversations, no need for apologies and our intentions would be transparent creating relationships build upon trust and confidence. No hidden agendas and hearts could do what they were created to be…filled with love, grace and mercy.

Living with integrity and intentional.

“Seeing clearer as if scales are falling from my eyes. ~Mary Hayes

You don’t have to be good at starting over just good at letting go.

“The only real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes.”

“For one human being to love another; that is perhaps the most difficult of all our tasks…the work for which all other work is but preparation.” ~Rainer Marie Rilke